Philadelphia & Surrounding Areas | South Jersey
All services are provided in the comfort of your home.
Includes a brief examination by the veterinarian, a full assessment of your pet's quality of life, and a custom treatment plan to help you care for your pet and monitor their condition.
Includes a discussion with the veterinarian, medication to ensure comfort, gentle euthanasia, pawprint impression keepsake, lock of fur, and Lap of Love's Eternal Pawprints booklet. The additional cost for the varied cremation services are detailed in the Aftercare Pricing section.
Includes a brief examination by the veterinarian to help explain your pet's condition, discuss symptom management including pain and anxiety, and prepare an end of life care plan using the appropriate quality of life scale to manage your pet along with your family's needs and desires.
There may be an additional charge for extended travel (see Service Area below), holidays ($50 - $100), pets over 99 lbs, appointments outside normal business hours (when arranged), aggressive pets, and some exotic species.
Although we mainly see dogs and cats, some of our veterinarians can assist you with other species such as pigs, guinea pigs, rabbits, ferrets, birds, fish, and goats. Call for pricing and availability.
With this option, your pet is cremated privately at a licensed crematory. The ashes are contained in a lovely wooden urn with an engraved nameplate and will be returned to your primary care veterinarian within two weeks. They can also be made available directly from the crematory or mailed to you for an additional fee.
This option is for families that don't wish to have their pet's ashes returned nor wish to bury at home. Pets are respectfully cremated with other pets at a licensed crematory and ashes are scattered at Nonantum Vet Clinic in Landenberg, PA.
There may be a fee if additional assistance to safely carry your pet out of your home is needed.
We are here to answer your questions every day, from 7am - 11pm. Appointments are scheduled throughout the week, please call for availability.
Sometimes, pets take a turn for the worse overnight, so we do our best to accommodate same day appointments with a few hours notice when possible.
If this is a medical emergency, please contact your local veterinarian or one of the emergency clinics listed in the Local Resources section.
Let us introduce you to the amazing hospice veterinarians in your area.
Brad Bates, VMD
People often ask me why I do what I do. For me, the ability to help pets and their loving families through a difficult time, and in doing so provide more comfort for everyone involved, is more than enough reason. It is a huge honor to help pets spend their last days or weeks or even months in more comfort, and with their families by their side. Everyone speaks of the difficulty of providing hospice care, but for me it is never difficult. Each and every pet and family I help shows me a deeper appreciation for the human animal bond. I feel the love between a family and a pet every time I step into a new home. It is a wonderful thing to be a part of, and to make a difficult situation better is exactly the reason I became a veterinarian.
I received my veterinary degree from the University of Pennsylvania. Although I have experience in a wide array of small animal care, end-of-life and hospice care has truly been a calling for me. I'm so grateful that I can share my experience and understanding to you.
Like most veterinarians, my home consists of many pet children: I have 3 cats and a chinchilla. Like most pet parents, I understand the fear involved when they are sick. The fear of not knowing what to do, how to help, what is too much and most importantly when is it an appropriate time to let them pass peacefully. These are tough decisions, and you need the assistance of someone that will focus on you and your pet specifically. I offer the service I would want in return when those sad days happen to me. Being at home, surrounded by loved ones, and a peaceful goodbye.
One thing I’ve learned after being blessed with such great pets in the past, is that you have to enjoy the time you have with them. Time is less important than quality of time. I remember my little Laker. He was a sickly kitten, born with FeLV infection. He was sick with a severe respiratory infection due to his diminished immune system. His mother had to push him away from the litter. I cared for him and nursed him to health and he became a happy healthy kitten. But at aged 2 he developed lymphoma secondary to FeLV. Poor Laker was quite sick and I tried to help. But there was no medicine that could make him better. Once I thought his quality of life was diminishing and not improving, I let him pass peacefully with the help of my colleague. It was the most difficult day of my life, and that time was the most difficult time of my life to this day, and probably forever. But the thought of him suffering or becoming sicker was worse. I thank the stars every day that I was able to let him pass peacefully before he suffered to death. He will be in my heart forever.
Spoil your pets and enjoy the laughs they bring when they are silly. Honor and remember them when they have passed. I never think of the day I will be without my pets. It helps that every day they make me laugh and smile.
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Anne Mitchell, VMD
I grew up in Chester County and have lived here all of my life. My aspiration to become a veterinarian began at an early age, as did my tendency to collect pets (dogs, fish, birds, hamsters, and eventually cats and horses also). I spent many wonderful years working as a veterinary technician prior to making the decision to apply to vet school. I completed my undergraduate work at West Chester University then proceeded on to University of Pennsylvania for my veterinary degree. Since graduation, I have spent most of my time working in general medicine at a private practice in Montgomery County, prior to joining Lap of Love.
My first dog as an adult was a young rescue German Shepherd who taught me so much about veterinary medicine and the human-animal bond. We were together for almost 14 amazing years before he earned his wings with me by his side. Allowing him to pass peacefully was one of the most difficult life choices I ever had to make but it was also one of the most important decisions. I was able to give him the gift of a planned, pain-free journey.
I am honored to have the opportunity to join Lap of Love and I hope to help you and your loved ones through those difficult times.
Abigail Shearin, VMD, PhD
I have wanted to be a veterinarian for as long as I could remember and it was never a stronger calling than when having to make the difficult decision to euthanize one of my family’s beloved pets. As a teenager, I bottle-raised a sick puppy who had many congenital defects that eventually led to the decision to euthanize. He was my puppy and at the age 14 years old, it was my decision. That was one of the hardest days of my life, but it was never clearer to me that veterinary medicine was the right path. A peaceful passing, surrounded by their loved ones, is one of the greatest gifts we can give our pets when they are struggling. Now, through Philadelphia’s chapter of Lap of Love, I am proud to offer this as an in-home service, making it that much more loving, peaceful and meaningful.
During my training to become a veterinarian, I also received a PhD studying Type 2 Diabetes Mellitus. This led to a deeper understanding of the management of chronic diseases and evoked a number of critical questions regarding quality of life. Our pets are often too stoic for us to detect when there is an underlying disease and they can sometimes fail rapidly, even with medical interventions.
Currently, I have two cats who require significant care for their chronic health issues. This has further deepened my understanding of the emotional resources that come with managing chronic diseases. Eventually these diseases will lead to a poor quality of life for one of my own, and one again, I will be faced with the decision of when to euthanize. It brings me a great sense of peace and reassurance that when this time comes, my cats won’t suffer and they will pass quietly in my arms at home.
I look forward to offering that same peace to pet families by enabling my patients to pass as stress-free as possible at home. I am honored to provide these services to the pets of loving owners in Philadelphia and parts of New Jersey.
Samantha Souther, DVM
I have wanted to be a veterinarian for as long as I can remember. From career day in 4th grade, when I wheeled in a wagon of bandaged stuffed animals, all the way through the rigors of veterinary school, animals have always been my passion. I received my veterinary degree from Western University of Health Sciences in California. After veterinary school, I completed a one year rotating internship at an emergency and specialty hospital in San Diego, where I found my calling in hospice care and helping patients with special needs.
During my work as an emergency veterinarian, I was confronted with hard cases and very sick pets. I was drawn to helping the sickest of pets towards the end of their lives. My pets are my family, and I realized my dream was to help other families through hard times with their fur children. Allowing a family member to pass is never an easy decision, but I realized my role as a veterinarian is to help these special pets live comfortably until their time and to pass with dignity. I want to be there to help your family navigate these hard times and decide when the time is right for you and your pet. And I want to help your pet pass in dignity, at home, for their comfort and yours. While it is never easy, I believe one of the most beautiful gifts we can give our pet is to let them pass peacefully at home, surrounded by loved ones. Trips to the vet can be hard on some of our pets, but it is a true honor to be able to come into their home, where they are at ease, and help them pass at peace.
As part of Lap of Love, I want to make difficult times as stress-free as possible and strengthen the bond between you and your pet through their last moments. In addition to helping families as a Lap of Love doctor, I am completing a veterinary residency at the University of Pennsylvania, working with pediatrics and difficult genetics cases. I live in Philadelphia with my husband and our two fur-babies, Maddy, our Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, and Agouti, our rescue cat.
Brad Bates, VMD
"Barklee was always terrified of going to the vet. When we got his diagnosis of large cell lymphoma, I talked to a friend in St. Louis about how I couldn't imagine taking him to the vet for his last moments. She mentioned a service like this that she knew of in her area, so I decided to look for one here in Philly. I found the website for Lap of Love and shared it with my parents, who agreed that this would be the best option for Barklee, if and when the time came. When he took a sudden turn yesterday, Dr. Sam was able to come out within a couple of hours. Of course for us, this still felt like not enough time, but it would never feel like enough, and we just couldn't prolong his suffering.
It feels strange to feel some relief and to thank someone for something that's resulted in such heavy grief for us. But we are all extremely grateful to Dr. Sam for helping us give Barklee the sendoff he deserved. I wish most people had the peaceful transition that he had. While we had already decided that this would be the best choice to make, we'd never been through losing a pet before, and there was a lot of anxiety leading up to Dr. Sam's arrival. But she was so empathetic and calming. Any anxiety on Barklee's part was very slight, and he seemed to know that she was there to help him. She let him take his time getting comfortable and falling asleep and was very gentle in taking his pawprint and taking a lock of his fur for us. She explained everything to us and was very reassuring. While his condition had already made us feel that we were making the right decision, she was able to confirm that for us, being so knowledgeable about his symptoms. We hadn't seen Barklee so relaxed in so long, and hearing his light snores was comforting, even though we were saying goodbye. He passed so quietly and peacefully, and Dr. Sam gave us more time with him after. She was gentle in getting him onto the stretcher and covering him in a soft blanket. I feel that everything she said in person and in her profile, as well as her hug, was genuine, and that she and the vets who work for Lap of Love are just so dedicated to helping give our best friends peace. The hardest part is now, suddenly having to live without him, but I am so glad that we found Lap of Love and couldn't have asked for anything more for Barklee. Thank you."
Jessica SiegerPhiladelphia, Pennsylvania
"Dr. Abby was so knowledgeable and compassionate during our hospice visit. I learned what the signs meant that Phoebe was exhibiting. When she came for the second visit to allow Phoebe to pass peacefully at home, she again showed her expertise and compassion. Our Phoebe was calm in her own home and I am very thankful for that. I am very grateful to Dr. Abby."
Tracy DasBrookhaven, Pennsylvania
"I can't speak highly enough about the care and compassion shown by Dr. Sam. She made an awful situation better, though it was still extremely painful (for me). But it was comforting to know that Maxie was in such great hands, and Dr. Sam helped her exit peacefully and serenely, on my bed with Maxie's head in my lap. Three months after, I still tear up, but it helps to know that my good companion of over 15 years couldn't have had a better caretaker help her through this part of her journey. Dr. Sam has my deepest gratitude."
Charles DonnellyPhiladelphia, Pennsylvania
"Dr Brad helped my Drucilla pass last week. She was a 16 year old cat who was with me for the past 16 years.
Drucilla was taken off the streets when she was about a year old. She had been fixed and declawed but somehow
became lost or abandoned. Therefore, she had some feral tendencies so his task wasn’t easy. She developed a large
mammary tumor and seemed to be in pain. Dr. Brad was professional and showed great patience and kindness to Drucilla.
He also showed respect for her remains after she had passed.
I would recommend him and Lap of Love if anyone needs this kind of service.
Drucilla was able to pass peacefully and that has given me comfort."
Kate HalusPhiladelphia, Pennsylvania
"Thank you Dr. Brad for providing our beloved Winston a respectful and comfortable transition into the afterlife.
Winston's final days were so wrought with pain the thought of moving him into the car to be put to sleep seemed incredibly cruel and inhuman. Lap of Love Veterinary at home euthanization provided us and our beloved dog the comfort of his home, it also; allowed us as grieving parents the privacy to be ourselves and hold him and kiss him to his last breath. Dr Brad treated Winston with professionalism and respect throughout this very painful time. He handled his little body with the same loving kindness that my Winston deserved. As I mourn his loss; I will have the comfort of knowing that even in his death I gave my baby the best.
We are forever grateful for the Lap of Love Organization and Dr. Brad."
Hali FreemanLAFAYETTE HILL, Pennsylvania
"Every single person that I dealt with was so kind... they understood the pain that my family and I were going through, and helped us through this very difficult time. I am so grateful that my friend was familiar with this organization and shared her experience. Dr. Anne made everyone comfortable with our decision, and included our other fur baby in this transition. I can not find the words to properly express how wonderful I believe Lap of Love to be, or how grateful we are that KaiLee's last moments were filled with peace and LOVE."
Kelly PasquarelloBensalem, Pennsylvania
Pet Life and Loss Support Services
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VSEC: Philadelphia, PA
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We proudly serves the Greater Philadelphia area, including parts of New Jersey. Travel fees ($30-$100) may apply based on distance traveled from our veterinarian.
Preferred methods of payment are check (made to 'Lap of Love') or cash. All major credit cards are accepted.
Most pet insurance companies cover Lap of Love services. Please have any paperwork ready for the veterinarian to complete so that you can submit it for reimbursement.
Lap of LovePO Box 63583Philadelphia, PA 19147
This Lap of Love location is owned and operated by Dr. Brad Bates