Philadelphia & Surrounding Areas | South Jersey
All services are provided in the comfort of your home.
Includes a brief examination by the veterinarian, a full assessment of your pet's quality of life, and a custom treatment plan to help you care for your pet and monitor their condition.
Includes a discussion with the veterinarian, medication to ensure comfort, gentle euthanasia, pawprint impression keepsake, lock of fur, and Lap of Love's Eternal Pawprints booklet. The additional cost for the varied cremation services are detailed in the Aftercare Pricing section.
Includes a brief examination by the veterinarian to help explain your pet's condition, discuss symptom management including pain and anxiety, and prepare an end of life care plan using the appropriate quality of life scale to manage your pet along with your family's needs and desires.
There may be an additional charge for extended travel (see Service Area below), holidays ($50 - $100), pets over 99 lbs, appointments outside normal business hours (when arranged), aggressive pets, and some exotic species.
Although we mainly see dogs and cats, some of our veterinarians can assist you with other species such as pigs, guinea pigs, rabbits, ferrets, birds, fish, and goats. Call for pricing and availability.
With this option, your pet is cremated privately at a licensed crematory. The ashes are contained in a lovely wooden urn with an engraved nameplate and will be returned to your primary care veterinarian within two weeks. They can also be made available directly from the crematory or mailed to you for an additional fee.
This option is for families that don't wish to have their pet's ashes returned nor wish to bury at home. Pets are respectfully cremated with other pets at a licensed crematory and ashes are scattered at Nonantum Vet Clinic in Landenberg, PA.
There may be a fee if additional assistance to safely carry your pet out of your home is needed.
We are here to answer your questions every day, from 7am - 11pm. Appointments are scheduled throughout the week, please call for availability.
Sometimes, pets take a turn for the worse overnight, so we do our best to accommodate same day appointments with a few hours notice when possible.
If this is a medical emergency, please contact your local veterinarian or one of the emergency clinics listed in the Local Resources section.
Let us introduce you to the amazing hospice veterinarians in your area.
People often ask me why I do what I do. For me, the ability to help pets and their loving families through a difficult time, and in doing so provide more comfort for everyone involved, is more than enough reason. It is a huge honor to help pets spend their last days or weeks or even months in more comfort, and with their families by their side. Everyone speaks of the difficulty of providing hospice care, but for me it is never difficult. Each and every pet and family I help shows me a deeper appreciation for the human animal bond. I feel the love between a family and a pet every time I step into a new home. It is a wonderful thing to be a part of, and to make a difficult situation better is exactly the reason I became a veterinarian.
I received my veterinary degree from the University of Pennsylvania. Although I have experience in a wide array of small animal care, end-of-life and hospice care has truly been a calling for me. I'm so grateful that I can share my experience and understanding to you.
Like most veterinarians, my home consists of many pet children: I have 3 cats and a chinchilla. Like most pet parents, I understand the fear involved when they are sick. The fear of not knowing what to do, how to help, what is too much and most importantly when is it an appropriate time to let them pass peacefully. These are tough decisions, and you need the assistance of someone that will focus on you and your pet specifically. I offer the service I would want in return when those sad days happen to me. Being at home, surrounded by loved ones, and a peaceful goodbye.
One thing I’ve learned after being blessed with such great pets in the past, is that you have to enjoy the time you have with them. Time is less important than quality of time. I remember my little Laker. He was a sickly kitten, born with FeLV infection. He was sick with a severe respiratory infection due to his diminished immune system. His mother had to push him away from the litter. I cared for him and nursed him to health and he became a happy healthy kitten. But at aged 2 he developed lymphoma secondary to FeLV. Poor Laker was quite sick and I tried to help. But there was no medicine that could make him better. Once I thought his quality of life was diminishing and not improving, I let him pass peacefully with the help of my colleague. It was the most difficult day of my life, and that time was the most difficult time of my life to this day, and probably forever. But the thought of him suffering or becoming sicker was worse. I thank the stars every day that I was able to let him pass peacefully before he suffered to death. He will be in my heart forever.
Spoil your pets and enjoy the laughs they bring when they are silly. Honor and remember them when they have passed. I never think of the day I will be without my pets. It helps that every day they make me laugh and smile.
Dr. Brad - In the News:
I grew up in Chester County and have lived here all of my life. My aspiration to become a veterinarian began at an early age, as did my tendency to collect pets (dogs, fish, birds, hamsters, and eventually cats and horses also). I spent many wonderful years working as a veterinary technician prior to making the decision to apply to vet school. I completed my undergraduate work at West Chester University then proceeded on to University of Pennsylvania for my veterinary degree. Since graduation, I have spent most of my time working in general medicine at a private practice in Montgomery County, prior to joining Lap of Love.
My first dog as an adult was a young rescue German Shepherd who taught me so much about veterinary medicine and the human-animal bond. We were together for almost 14 amazing years before he earned his wings with me by his side. Allowing him to pass peacefully was one of the most difficult life choices I ever had to make but it was also one of the most important decisions. I was able to give him the gift of a planned, pain-free journey.
I am honored to have the opportunity to join Lap of Love and I hope to help you and your loved ones through those difficult times.
I have wanted to be a veterinarian for as long as I could remember and it was never a stronger calling than when having to make the difficult decision to euthanize one of my family’s beloved pets. As a teenager, I bottle-raised a sick puppy who had many congenital defects that eventually led to the decision to euthanize. He was my puppy and at the age 14 years old, it was my decision. That was one of the hardest days of my life, but it was never clearer to me that veterinary medicine was the right path. A peaceful passing, surrounded by their loved ones, is one of the greatest gifts we can give our pets when they are struggling. Now, through Philadelphia’s chapter of Lap of Love, I am proud to offer this as an in-home service, making it that much more loving, peaceful and meaningful.
During my training to become a veterinarian, I also received a PhD studying Type 2 Diabetes Mellitus. This led to a deeper understanding of the management of chronic diseases and evoked a number of critical questions regarding quality of life. Our pets are often too stoic for us to detect when there is an underlying disease and they can sometimes fail rapidly, even with medical interventions.
Currently, I have two cats who require significant care for their chronic health issues. This has further deepened my understanding of the emotional resources that come with managing chronic diseases. Eventually these diseases will lead to a poor quality of life for one of my own, and one again, I will be faced with the decision of when to euthanize. It brings me a great sense of peace and reassurance that when this time comes, my cats won’t suffer and they will pass quietly in my arms at home.
I look forward to offering that same peace to pet families by enabling my patients to pass as stress-free as possible at home. I am honored to provide these services to the pets of loving owners in Philadelphia and parts of New Jersey.
I have wanted to be a veterinarian for as long as I can remember. From career day in 4th grade, when I wheeled in a wagon of bandaged stuffed animals, all the way through the rigors of veterinary school, animals have always been my passion. I received my veterinary degree from Western University of Health Sciences in California. After veterinary school, I completed a one year rotating internship at an emergency and specialty hospital in San Diego, where I found my calling in hospice care and helping patients with special needs.
During my work as an emergency veterinarian, I was confronted with hard cases and very sick pets. I was drawn to helping the sickest of pets towards the end of their lives. My pets are my family, and I realized my dream was to help other families through hard times with their fur children. Allowing a family member to pass is never an easy decision, but I realized my role as a veterinarian is to help these special pets live comfortably until their time and to pass with dignity. I want to be there to help your family navigate these hard times and decide when the time is right for you and your pet. And I want to help your pet pass in dignity, at home, for their comfort and yours. While it is never easy, I believe one of the most beautiful gifts we can give our pet is to let them pass peacefully at home, surrounded by loved ones. Trips to the vet can be hard on some of our pets, but it is a true honor to be able to come into their home, where they are at ease, and help them pass at peace.
As part of Lap of Love, I want to make difficult times as stress-free as possible and strengthen the bond between you and your pet through their last moments. In addition to helping families as a Lap of Love doctor, I am completing a veterinary residency at the University of Pennsylvania, working with pediatrics and difficult genetics cases. I live in Philadelphia with my husband and our two fur-babies, Maddy, our Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, and Agouti, our rescue cat.
Brad Bates, VMD
"There are no adequate words to express how grateful we are for Lap of Love. Our sweet clown dog Bacall became seriously ill very quickly and we were dreading having impose additional stress on her by traveling to the hospital. Dr. Anne came to our house within a couple hours of our call. The entire process was explained to us over the phone and followed up with a detailed email which we could review prior to the doctor’s arrival so we knew exactly what to expect. This was extremely helpful and made the entire experience a much calmer one for the humans. Dr. Anne assessed Bacall’s condition and quickly made her more comfortable, giving us additional time to say goodbye while Bacall was not struggling. The entire experience was peaceful, dignified, and everything we could have hoped for a quiet farewell to our beloved girl. We are grateful for Lap of Love and for doctors who have dedicated themselves to this important service of love."
Connie MichaelsonPottstown, Pennsylvania
"Dr. Brad was kind, caring, and compassionate as he came to assess our dog Peach. He gave his opinion and explained the reasoning behind it which gave us peace of mind as we made our decision. We feel lucky to have had such a kind doctor to help us through this difficult process."
Sheena BhattTrevose, Pennsylvania
"Paw Prints On My Heart
I knew the house would be quiet when it was your time to leave.
But the silence is so deafening as I think about you and grieve.
Your bed is empty every time I look over as expect to see you face.
Instead I see your toys in what used to be your place.
Lately I’ve been wanting to curl up and lay your bed, to get some sort of comfort, but I just cry instead.
Today I was reminded of our trip to Dairy Queen.
As I got in my car, I found your nail in my sun visor seam.
Also something else tonight, that made me take a look.
I felt and found a single strand of your fur in my foot.
I no longer hear you barking when someone is at the door.
Or the sound of your nails click clacking on the floor.
Not a day goes by that I don’t think of you since we’ve been apart.
You will always be my puppy that left your paw prints on my heart.
Written by Christine Shubin
Dr. Brad provided a calm and peaceful setting for my dog and my family. He was patient and kind. I’m glad I used Lap of Love. Every staff member that I spoke with was caring and helpful. Dr. Brad made a difficult and stressful situation, less stressful for us."
Christine ShubinDrexel Hill, Pennsylvania
"This is my first experience with having to make the heartbreaking decision as to what was the best choice for my best friend. Dr. Brad explained very compassionately, but honestly, the different choices I had and what those choices may result in. He understood that as humans we are all different and what choice may work for one human and their family may not work for another. By being honest, he allowed us to be able to make our decision based on what would work best for us. When it was time to say goodbye, he guided us through the process with gentleness and respect. He made us aware the entire time what was happening, as it was happening. There was no better place for my baby to be than in her home, surrounded by those that loved her beyond words. I am so grateful I was able to give her that peaceful exit."
Melissa AllenPine Hill, New Jersey
"Extremely available, caring and courteous service. They were able to get to us as soon as we were ready, the Doctor explained the process and made us very comfortable. I would highly recommend their service if you have to go through this painful process."
William HolderWallingford, Pennsylvania
"When the health of our beloved Brody, an 8 year-old Newfoundland, declined rapidly, we called Lap of Love. We were supported by kind and compassionate people every step of the way. We are grateful to Alex and Dr. Sharon, our phone contacts, and especially grateful to Dr. Brad.
Dr. Brad made an unbearable situation bearable. As soon as he walked into the room, Brody started wagging his tail, something that he hadn't done in days. It was as if he knew immediately that Dr. Brad was his friend. Dr. Brad followed up with us by email the next day, to express his condolences again and to make sure that we were okay.
Brody passed in peace, in the comfort of his home, thanks to the staff at Lap of Love. We highly recommend them to any pet owner who is faced with this difficult end-of-life decision.
Tammy and Greg"
Tammy and Greg StetsSpringfield, Pennsylvania
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We proudly serves the Greater Philadelphia area, including parts of New Jersey. Travel fees ($30-$100) may apply based on distance traveled from our veterinarian.
Preferred methods of payment are check (made to 'Lap of Love') or cash. All major credit cards are accepted.
Most pet insurance companies cover Lap of Love services. Please have any paperwork ready for the veterinarian to complete so that you can submit it for reimbursement.
Lap of LovePO Box 63583Philadelphia, PA 19147
This Lap of Love location is owned and operated by Dr. Brad Bates