Philadelphia & Surrounding Areas | South Jersey
All services are provided in the comfort of your home.
Includes a brief examination by the veterinarian, a full assessment of your pet's quality of life, and a custom treatment plan to help you care for your pet and monitor their condition.
Includes a discussion with the veterinarian, medication to ensure comfort, gentle euthanasia, pawprint impression keepsake, lock of fur, and Lap of Love's Eternal Pawprints booklet. The additional cost for the varied cremation services are detailed in the Aftercare Pricing section.
Includes a brief examination by the veterinarian to help explain your pet's condition, discuss symptom management including pain and anxiety, and prepare an end of life care plan using the appropriate quality of life scale to manage your pet along with your family's needs and desires.
There may be an additional charge for extended travel (see Service Area below), holidays ($50 - $100), pets over 99 lbs, appointments outside normal business hours (when arranged), aggressive pets, and some exotic species.
Although we mainly see dogs and cats, some of our veterinarians can assist you with other species such as pigs, guinea pigs, rabbits, ferrets, birds, fish, and goats. Call for pricing and availability.
With this option, your pet is cremated privately at a licensed crematory. The ashes are contained in a lovely wooden urn with an engraved nameplate and will be returned to your primary care veterinarian within two weeks. They can also be made available directly from the crematory or mailed to you for an additional fee.
This option is for families that don't wish to have their pet's ashes returned nor wish to bury at home. Pets are respectfully cremated with other pets at a licensed crematory and ashes are scattered at Nonantum Vet Clinic in Landenberg, PA.
There may be a fee if additional assistance to safely carry your pet out of your home is needed.
We are here to answer your questions every day, from 7am - 11pm. Appointments are scheduled throughout the week, please call for availability.
Sometimes, pets take a turn for the worse overnight, so we do our best to accommodate same day appointments with a few hours notice when possible.
If this is a medical emergency, please contact your local veterinarian or one of the emergency clinics listed in the Local Resources section.
Let us introduce you to the amazing hospice veterinarians in your area.
Brad Bates, VMD
People often ask me why I do what I do. For me, the ability to help pets and their loving families through a difficult time, and in doing so provide more comfort for everyone involved, is more than enough reason. It is a huge honor to help pets spend their last days or weeks or even months in more comfort, and with their families by their side. Everyone speaks of the difficulty of providing hospice care, but for me it is never difficult. Each and every pet and family I help shows me a deeper appreciation for the human animal bond. I feel the love between a family and a pet every time I step into a new home. It is a wonderful thing to be a part of, and to make a difficult situation better is exactly the reason I became a veterinarian.
I received my veterinary degree from the University of Pennsylvania. Although I have experience in a wide array of small animal care, end-of-life and hospice care has truly been a calling for me. I'm so grateful that I can share my experience and understanding to you.
Like most veterinarians, my home consists of many pet children: I have 3 cats and a chinchilla. Like most pet parents, I understand the fear involved when they are sick. The fear of not knowing what to do, how to help, what is too much and most importantly when is it an appropriate time to let them pass peacefully. These are tough decisions, and you need the assistance of someone that will focus on you and your pet specifically. I offer the service I would want in return when those sad days happen to me. Being at home, surrounded by loved ones, and a peaceful goodbye.
One thing I’ve learned after being blessed with such great pets in the past, is that you have to enjoy the time you have with them. Time is less important than quality of time. I remember my little Laker. He was a sickly kitten, born with FeLV infection. He was sick with a severe respiratory infection due to his diminished immune system. His mother had to push him away from the litter. I cared for him and nursed him to health and he became a happy healthy kitten. But at aged 2 he developed lymphoma secondary to FeLV. Poor Laker was quite sick and I tried to help. But there was no medicine that could make him better. Once I thought his quality of life was diminishing and not improving, I let him pass peacefully with the help of my colleague. It was the most difficult day of my life, and that time was the most difficult time of my life to this day, and probably forever. But the thought of him suffering or becoming sicker was worse. I thank the stars every day that I was able to let him pass peacefully before he suffered to death. He will be in my heart forever.
Spoil your pets and enjoy the laughs they bring when they are silly. Honor and remember them when they have passed. I never think of the day I will be without my pets. It helps that every day they make me laugh and smile.
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Anne Mitchell, VMD
I grew up in Chester County and have lived here all of my life. My aspiration to become a veterinarian began at an early age, as did my tendency to collect pets (dogs, fish, birds, hamsters, and eventually cats and horses also). I spent many wonderful years working as a veterinary technician prior to making the decision to apply to vet school. I completed my undergraduate work at West Chester University then proceeded on to University of Pennsylvania for my veterinary degree. Since graduation, I have spent most of my time working in general medicine at a private practice in Montgomery County, prior to joining Lap of Love.
My first dog as an adult was a young rescue German Shepherd who taught me so much about veterinary medicine and the human-animal bond. We were together for almost 14 amazing years before he earned his wings with me by his side. Allowing him to pass peacefully was one of the most difficult life choices I ever had to make but it was also one of the most important decisions. I was able to give him the gift of a planned, pain-free journey.
I am honored to have the opportunity to join Lap of Love and I hope to help you and your loved ones through those difficult times.
Abigail Shearin, VMD, PhD
I have wanted to be a veterinarian for as long as I could remember and it was never a stronger calling than when having to make the difficult decision to euthanize one of my family’s beloved pets. As a teenager, I bottle-raised a sick puppy who had many congenital defects that eventually led to the decision to euthanize. He was my puppy and at the age 14 years old, it was my decision. That was one of the hardest days of my life, but it was never clearer to me that veterinary medicine was the right path. A peaceful passing, surrounded by their loved ones, is one of the greatest gifts we can give our pets when they are struggling. Now, through Philadelphia’s chapter of Lap of Love, I am proud to offer this as an in-home service, making it that much more loving, peaceful and meaningful.
During my training to become a veterinarian, I also received a PhD studying Type 2 Diabetes Mellitus. This led to a deeper understanding of the management of chronic diseases and evoked a number of critical questions regarding quality of life. Our pets are often too stoic for us to detect when there is an underlying disease and they can sometimes fail rapidly, even with medical interventions.
Currently, I have two cats who require significant care for their chronic health issues. This has further deepened my understanding of the emotional resources that come with managing chronic diseases. Eventually these diseases will lead to a poor quality of life for one of my own, and one again, I will be faced with the decision of when to euthanize. It brings me a great sense of peace and reassurance that when this time comes, my cats won’t suffer and they will pass quietly in my arms at home.
I look forward to offering that same peace to pet families by enabling my patients to pass as stress-free as possible at home. I am honored to provide these services to the pets of loving owners in Philadelphia and parts of New Jersey.
Samantha Souther, DVM
I have wanted to be a veterinarian for as long as I can remember. From career day in 4th grade, when I wheeled in a wagon of bandaged stuffed animals, all the way through the rigors of veterinary school, animals have always been my passion. I received my veterinary degree from Western University of Health Sciences in California. After veterinary school, I completed a one year rotating internship at an emergency and specialty hospital in San Diego, where I found my calling in hospice care and helping patients with special needs.
During my work as an emergency veterinarian, I was confronted with hard cases and very sick pets. I was drawn to helping the sickest of pets towards the end of their lives. My pets are my family, and I realized my dream was to help other families through hard times with their fur children. Allowing a family member to pass is never an easy decision, but I realized my role as a veterinarian is to help these special pets live comfortably until their time and to pass with dignity. I want to be there to help your family navigate these hard times and decide when the time is right for you and your pet. And I want to help your pet pass in dignity, at home, for their comfort and yours. While it is never easy, I believe one of the most beautiful gifts we can give our pet is to let them pass peacefully at home, surrounded by loved ones. Trips to the vet can be hard on some of our pets, but it is a true honor to be able to come into their home, where they are at ease, and help them pass at peace.
As part of Lap of Love, I want to make difficult times as stress-free as possible and strengthen the bond between you and your pet through their last moments. In addition to helping families as a Lap of Love doctor, I am completing a veterinary residency at the University of Pennsylvania, working with pediatrics and difficult genetics cases. I live in Philadelphia with my husband and our two fur-babies, Maddy, our Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, and Agouti, our rescue cat.
Brad Bates, VMD
"Dr Abby was so caring and compassionate during this very difficult time. I would highly reccomend Lap of Love in your time of need.
Thanks so much Dr Abby, you really helped us feel at
Michelle TomascoHavertown, Pennsylvania
"Lap of Love is truly a blessing. Our dog ginger who was suffering from advanced lymphoma, took a turn for the worse on a Sunday afternoon. I called Lap of Love, and Dr. Samantha was at our home within a few hours.
Ginger was on her dog bed with her favorite blanket, and our whole family was present, including our other 2 dogs. Her passing was very peaceful.
I would highly recommend this service. it saved Ginger the anxiety of going to the vet office to be euthanized.
We chose to have the private cremation service. When she passed, Dr. Sam put her on a stretcher with a pink blanket and took her away. It was all very loving."
leanne lacovaraCherry Hill, New Jersey
"I just want to thank everyone at Lap of Love, they were so so supportive and caring from the time I called until my beloved Willy’s ashes were delivered. Dr. Anne was so caring and allowed us to have our time with our boy, never rushed, just so sympathetic she was. I highly recommend Lap of Love to help bring your precious fur baby over the rainbow 🌈 bridge! Thank you so much, many blessings to you all for what you do!"
Lisa AustinSwedesboro, New Jersey
"Our Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, "Why Me." was my joy, my best friend, and my constant traveling companion for 16 years until old age finally caught up with him and the time came that we had to let him go. I still weep every time I think of him, which is almost all the time, and the only thing that makes his loss in any way bearable is knowing how quietly and gently he was eased from this world. Dr. Samantha was simply wonderful with him (and with my husband and myself), so kind and compassionate--I don't know how we would have gotten through this dreaded ordeal without her sweet and quiet manner. While it must be hard dealing every day with the death of someone's beloved pet, I cannot think of any service a veterinarian can perform that is more humane and caring than to enable a pet to die with dignity in the comfort of their own home. If only all of us could go so gently from this world. Thank you, Dr. Samantha and Lap of Love!"
West Chester, Pennsylvania
"We are grateful for Dr. Brad's efforts to help ease Dora's pain. It was a difficult but necessary decision and she will be missed. The home procedure was a great opportunity to have her surrounded by family and friends in the home that she loved. Dr. Brad's calm and caring presence helped ease Dora's pain (and our anxiety). We are grateful for his efforts and will recommend him to our family and friends."
John GarrityCollingswood, New Jersey
"Thank you Dr. Brad for all you have done. It’s an end of an era for us the BabyGirl being the last of the 3 we had. I’m glad you were there for all 3 of them making the transition easier for them and us. We will be forever grateful for your compassion and services.
Jill Harley-Arena and Nicholas
3 Dogo Argentino’s now at the rainbow bridge🌈❤️"
Jill & Nicholas ArenaMeadowbrook, Pennsylvania
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We proudly serves the Greater Philadelphia area, including parts of New Jersey. Travel fees ($30-$100) may apply based on distance traveled from our veterinarian.
Preferred methods of payment are check (made to 'Lap of Love') or cash. All major credit cards are accepted.
Most pet insurance companies cover Lap of Love services. Please have any paperwork ready for the veterinarian to complete so that you can submit it for reimbursement.
Lap of LovePO Box 63583Philadelphia, PA 19147
This Lap of Love location is owned and operated by Dr. Brad Bates