Philadelphia & Surrounding Areas | South Jersey
All services are provided in the comfort of your home.
Includes a brief examination by the veterinarian, a full assessment of your pet's quality of life, and a custom treatment plan to help you care for your pet and monitor their condition.
Includes a discussion with the veterinarian, medication to ensure comfort, gentle euthanasia, pawprint impression keepsake, lock of fur, and Lap of Love's Eternal Pawprints booklet. The additional cost for the varied cremation services are detailed in the Aftercare Pricing section.
Includes a brief examination by the veterinarian to help explain your pet's condition, discuss symptom management including pain and anxiety, and prepare an end of life care plan using the appropriate quality of life scale to manage your pet along with your family's needs and desires.
There may be an additional charge for extended travel (see Service Area below), holidays ($50 - $100), pets over 99 lbs, appointments outside normal business hours (when arranged), aggressive pets, and some exotic species.
Although we mainly see dogs and cats, some of our veterinarians can assist you with other species such as pigs, guinea pigs, rabbits, ferrets, birds, fish, and goats. Call for pricing and availability.
With this option, your pet is cremated privately at a licensed crematory. The ashes are contained in a lovely wooden urn with an engraved nameplate and will be returned to your primary care veterinarian within two weeks. They can also be made available directly from the crematory or mailed to you for an additional fee.
This option is for families that don't wish to have their pet's ashes returned nor wish to bury at home. Pets are respectfully cremated with other pets at a licensed crematory and ashes are scattered at Nonantum Vet Clinic in Landenberg, PA.
There may be a fee if additional assistance to safely carry your pet out of your home is needed.
We are here to answer your questions every day, from 7am - 11pm. Appointments are scheduled throughout the week, please call for availability.
Sometimes, pets take a turn for the worse overnight, so we do our best to accommodate same day appointments with a few hours notice when possible.
If this is a medical emergency, please contact your local veterinarian or one of the emergency clinics listed in the Local Resources section.
Let us introduce you to the amazing hospice veterinarians in your area.
People often ask me why I do what I do. For me, the ability to help pets and their loving families through a difficult time, and in doing so provide more comfort for everyone involved, is more than enough reason. It is a huge honor to help pets spend their last days or weeks or even months in more comfort, and with their families by their side. Everyone speaks of the difficulty of providing hospice care, but for me it is never difficult. Each and every pet and family I help shows me a deeper appreciation for the human animal bond. I feel the love between a family and a pet every time I step into a new home. It is a wonderful thing to be a part of, and to make a difficult situation better is exactly the reason I became a veterinarian.
I received my veterinary degree from the University of Pennsylvania. Although I have experience in a wide array of small animal care, end-of-life and hospice care has truly been a calling for me. I'm so grateful that I can share my experience and understanding to you.
Like most veterinarians, my home consists of many pet children: I have 3 cats and a chinchilla. Like most pet parents, I understand the fear involved when they are sick. The fear of not knowing what to do, how to help, what is too much and most importantly when is it an appropriate time to let them pass peacefully. These are tough decisions, and you need the assistance of someone that will focus on you and your pet specifically. I offer the service I would want in return when those sad days happen to me. Being at home, surrounded by loved ones, and a peaceful goodbye.
One thing I’ve learned after being blessed with such great pets in the past, is that you have to enjoy the time you have with them. Time is less important than quality of time. I remember my little Laker. He was a sickly kitten, born with FeLV infection. He was sick with a severe respiratory infection due to his diminished immune system. His mother had to push him away from the litter. I cared for him and nursed him to health and he became a happy healthy kitten. But at aged 2 he developed lymphoma secondary to FeLV. Poor Laker was quite sick and I tried to help. But there was no medicine that could make him better. Once I thought his quality of life was diminishing and not improving, I let him pass peacefully with the help of my colleague. It was the most difficult day of my life, and that time was the most difficult time of my life to this day, and probably forever. But the thought of him suffering or becoming sicker was worse. I thank the stars every day that I was able to let him pass peacefully before he suffered to death. He will be in my heart forever.
Spoil your pets and enjoy the laughs they bring when they are silly. Honor and remember them when they have passed. I never think of the day I will be without my pets. It helps that every day they make me laugh and smile.
Dr. Brad - In the News:
I grew up in Chester County and have lived here all of my life. My aspiration to become a veterinarian began at an early age, as did my tendency to collect pets (dogs, fish, birds, hamsters, and eventually cats and horses also). I spent many wonderful years working as a veterinary technician prior to making the decision to apply to vet school. I completed my undergraduate work at West Chester University then proceeded on to University of Pennsylvania for my veterinary degree. Since graduation, I have spent most of my time working in general medicine at a private practice in Montgomery County, prior to joining Lap of Love.
My first dog as an adult was a young rescue German Shepherd who taught me so much about veterinary medicine and the human-animal bond. We were together for almost 14 amazing years before he earned his wings with me by his side. Allowing him to pass peacefully was one of the most difficult life choices I ever had to make but it was also one of the most important decisions. I was able to give him the gift of a planned, pain-free journey.
I am honored to have the opportunity to join Lap of Love and I hope to help you and your loved ones through those difficult times.
I have wanted to be a veterinarian for as long as I could remember and it was never a stronger calling than when having to make the difficult decision to euthanize one of my family’s beloved pets. As a teenager, I bottle-raised a sick puppy who had many congenital defects that eventually led to the decision to euthanize. He was my puppy and at the age 14 years old, it was my decision. That was one of the hardest days of my life, but it was never clearer to me that veterinary medicine was the right path. A peaceful passing, surrounded by their loved ones, is one of the greatest gifts we can give our pets when they are struggling. Now, through Philadelphia’s chapter of Lap of Love, I am proud to offer this as an in-home service, making it that much more loving, peaceful and meaningful.
During my training to become a veterinarian, I also received a PhD studying Type 2 Diabetes Mellitus. This led to a deeper understanding of the management of chronic diseases and evoked a number of critical questions regarding quality of life. Our pets are often too stoic for us to detect when there is an underlying disease and they can sometimes fail rapidly, even with medical interventions.
Currently, I have two cats who require significant care for their chronic health issues. This has further deepened my understanding of the emotional resources that come with managing chronic diseases. Eventually these diseases will lead to a poor quality of life for one of my own, and one again, I will be faced with the decision of when to euthanize. It brings me a great sense of peace and reassurance that when this time comes, my cats won’t suffer and they will pass quietly in my arms at home.
I look forward to offering that same peace to pet families by enabling my patients to pass as stress-free as possible at home. I am honored to provide these services to the pets of loving owners in Philadelphia and parts of New Jersey.
I have wanted to be a veterinarian for as long as I can remember. From career day in 4th grade, when I wheeled in a wagon of bandaged stuffed animals, all the way through the rigors of veterinary school, animals have always been my passion. I received my veterinary degree from Western University of Health Sciences in California. After veterinary school, I completed a one year rotating internship at an emergency and specialty hospital in San Diego, where I found my calling in hospice care and helping patients with special needs.
During my work as an emergency veterinarian, I was confronted with hard cases and very sick pets. I was drawn to helping the sickest of pets towards the end of their lives. My pets are my family, and I realized my dream was to help other families through hard times with their fur children. Allowing a family member to pass is never an easy decision, but I realized my role as a veterinarian is to help these special pets live comfortably until their time and to pass with dignity. I want to be there to help your family navigate these hard times and decide when the time is right for you and your pet. And I want to help your pet pass in dignity, at home, for their comfort and yours. While it is never easy, I believe one of the most beautiful gifts we can give our pet is to let them pass peacefully at home, surrounded by loved ones. Trips to the vet can be hard on some of our pets, but it is a true honor to be able to come into their home, where they are at ease, and help them pass at peace.
As part of Lap of Love, I want to make difficult times as stress-free as possible and strengthen the bond between you and your pet through their last moments. In addition to helping families as a Lap of Love doctor, I am completing a veterinary residency at the University of Pennsylvania, working with pediatrics and difficult genetics cases. I live in Philadelphia with my husband and our two fur-babies, Maddy, our Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, and Agouti, our rescue cat.
Brad Bates, VMD
"Our Shanti was with us for 19 years. He was a feral cat born under our neighbor's bushes along with his 3 siblings. Sometimes we wondered if he was part canine since he exhibited many traits of our former dog; running outside to play and returning when his name was called, greeting us at the door with a very loud meow and wanting to sit on our laps at every chance. As we watched his health decline over the past year the decision to let him go became more and more difficult. When we called our vet and asked about In-Home Euthanasia we were referred to Lap of Love. Dr. Anne came that day and helped us send our Shanti to a peaceful place. With love and caring she gave us the strength to say goodbye. We are so grateful to Dr. Anne and Lap of Love for providing this service and to know Shanti was in his home with us when he went on his journey."
Linda TownsendPhiladelphia, Pennsylvania
"Dr Brad when I first met him he was so kind and gentle with lucky and I knew I made the right decision he had the same cat as I did and I would recommend him again very highly Dr Brad was very patient very kind and always returns my calls and messages he made the last days of my Lucky's life very comfortable and his last day was so special I don't regret any decision that I've made and I would definitely recommend the lap of love to everyone thank you again"
Zaida Bare-burnsPhiladelphia, Pennsylvania
"It’s only been one day since my Brandi crossed the bridge. I struggled with when to do “it”. She was older and had been battling cancer fiercely for two years. She amazed me every day with her strength and will to live. She didn’t let it affect her spirit in any way. She was my first ACCT PHILLY baby. Brandi taught me so much. I could go on and on but I just want to give my testimonial for the wonderful experience that Lap of Love and Dr. Abby gave to my family. Once I made the decision I called and it was nothing short of perfect from there. Lisa, over the phone was so kind and gentle with her words. Dr. Abby was available thankfully. She came to my home in less than 2 hours. She had helped my sister Jamie with her baby girl Joanie just a month prior. She was a Godsend. Brandi passed surrounded by her family. It was very peaceful. I’m so thankful for everything. I’m so glad I didn’t have to drag her to an emergency vet. If Brandi could talk I think she would’ve chosen this exact scenario. Again, Dr. Abby and Lisa and everyone at Lap of Love, thank you so very much for making an extremely difficult situation a little bit easier. I appreciated the paw print and the fur and I’ll read the literature when I’m able. God bless all of you for doing what so many people can’t do."
Shannon GrievesLevittown, Pennsylvania
"I feel Lap of Love and Dr. Abby allowed me to be able to say goodbye to Clover, my 11 year old cat. Clover got sick very fast. Within one month he went from 20 pounds down to 8 lbs, he was miserable, could not keep food down and and went from my constant companion to just laying on floor in one spot and only getting up to use litter box. After taking him to his vet we knew he was to ill with diabetes and kidney disease to get well. My family wanted to drop him off at the ASPCA to be left to be put to sleep.. I knew in my heart I could not do this. I started doing research on home euthanasia and was lucky to find Lap of Love. I talked to Taylor and she was wonderful, supportive and let me know Dr. Abby would evaluate Clover before putting him to sleep. Once I met Dr. Abby I knew this was the right thing to do. I held Clover in my lap and was able to pet him and talk to him until he died in my arms. I still think of him in places and activities around the house by thanks to Lap of Love and Dr Abby I feel at peace and I am able to believe Clover is in a better place and now has no pain.
THANK YOU Dr. Abby and Lap of Love"
Coleen GitnerEast Norriton, Pennsylvania
"I was unsure about having Lap of Love come to my home to take care of me sweet baby. I thought that everything would be rushed, but it wasn’t. Dr. Abby was wonderful. She was gentle and so sweet to Rascal, I cannot thank her enough. Rascal was my baby and I love and miss him so much and I I’m grateful that he got to spend his last moments in the comfort of his own home with his family. I have 7 more dogs that I rescued and I know that when the time comes Lap of Love will be here with us. Thank you Dr. Abby for having a good heart."
Patricia PattersonBellmawr, New Jersey
"It was a heartbreaking decision to send my Gabriel back home. I went through days of agonizing uncertainty . But I was sure that I wanted him to go over the "Rainbow Bridge" from home, from my own arms. Lap of Love was a blessing to me from my initial phone call . I spoke with Tina who was warm and compassionate. When Dr. Abbey came to the house she helped me realize that the decision to stop Gabriel's suffering was the right one for him. The process was peaceful. The ability to hold my little angel as he crossed over was beautiful. I will always go to Lap of Love when in need.
Thank you Dr. Abbey and Lap of Love for your kindness and help."
Maureen Mclaughlin ChewWallingford, Pennsylvania
Pet Life and Loss Support Services
U Penn School of Veterinary Medicine
VSEC: Philadelphia, PA
Day by Day Pet Support
Veterinary Specialty Center of Delaware: Newcastle, DE
VSEC: Levitown, PA
Metropolitan Veterinary Associates: Norristown, PA
Keystone Veterinary Emergency and Referral: Havertown, PA
Helping families in the following areas:
We proudly serves the Greater Philadelphia area, including parts of New Jersey. Travel fees ($30-$100) may apply based on distance traveled from our veterinarian.
Preferred methods of payment are check (made to 'Lap of Love') or cash. All major credit cards are accepted.
Most pet insurance companies cover Lap of Love services. Please have any paperwork ready for the veterinarian to complete so that you can submit it for reimbursement.
Lap of LovePO Box 63583Philadelphia, PA 19147
This Lap of Love location is owned and operated by Dr. Brad Bates